When someone joins the Army, they’re stepping into more than a job—they’re joining a legacy. From how they greet others to how they stand during the National Anthem, every action has meaning. These customs shape identity, build respect, and unite Soldiers across generations. Learning these traditions with your Future Soldier is one of the best ways to show support and feel connected during this exciting time of change.
Start With the Basics: Respect, Rank, and Salutes
In the Army, respect isn’t just a value—it’s a way of life. Soldiers stand at attention, salute officers, and address leaders by rank and title. Learn together how saluting works and when it’s required, the difference between enlisted and officer ranks, what “parade rest” and “attention” look like, and why Soldiers say “sir” and “ma’am.” Understanding these customs will help you follow along as they grow into their role and appreciate the discipline shaping them.
Dig Into Traditions That Build Identity
The Army’s customs are more than rules—they’re symbols of unity, honor, and pride. Explore together the meaning of Reveille and Retreat, the Army Song sung at ceremonies, the Soldier’s Creed and Army Values that define who they are, and the unit guidons and patches that carry history and loyalty. These traditions transform the Army from just a workplace into a proud and enduring team.
Practice Letter-Writing Courtesy
During Basic Training, letters are often the only connection to home, and they’re a chance to reflect the professionalism your Soldier is learning. Keep your language clear and encouraging, avoid overly casual slang, and write with purpose and pride. Even in this small way, you’ll mirror the Army’s emphasis on intentional, respectful communication.
Watch or Attend Ceremonies Together (When Possible)
Graduations, family days, and swearing-in ceremonies are living displays of Army customs. If you can attend, you’ll see firsthand how Soldiers move, speak, and honor their leaders. If distance keeps you away, watch official Army videos or read up on these events beforehand so you can still share in the moment and understand the significance of what’s happening.
Let Them Teach You
Invite your Future Soldier to share what they’re learning—ask them to show you how to stand at attention, look up the Army Song together, or explain a new custom they discovered. When you let them take the lead, you give them pride in their knowledge and give yourself a richer understanding of their journey.
Last Call
Supporting a Future Soldier means walking beside them, not just cheering from the sidelines. By learning Army customs and traditions together, you show respect for their journey, pride in their progress, and a willingness to grow alongside them. What might feel unfamiliar now will soon become shared knowledge, turning uncertainty into connection and curiosity into pride.
I’ll be back next week with more tips and guidance. Until then, Hooah!
SGM Kris Broadus, U.S. Army (Retired)
