The day your Future Soldier ships out for Army Basic Training is one you’ll remember forever. While “goodbye” can feel heavy, it’s also the start of an amazing new chapter—one filled with growth, pride, and purpose. This isn’t the end of daily connection—it’s the beginning of their transformation into a Soldier, and you have the honor of being part of their support team.
Focus on Pride, Not Sadness
It’s natural to feel emotional, but remember—this moment is proof of their courage. They’ve made the brave choice to serve their country, and that’s something worth celebrating. Instead of dwelling on what you’re parting with, focus on what they’re stepping into: discipline, leadership, teamwork, and the fulfillment of a dream.
Make the Morning Special
The day they ship out will likely start early. Use that time to set a positive tone:
- Share breakfast together, even if it’s quick.
- Tell a favorite memory that makes you smile.
- Let them see your confidence in their ability to succeed.
When you send them off with a smile, it reminds them they carry your strength with them.
Say the Words That Will Stay With Them
Your Future Soldier will remember your goodbye long after they arrive at Basic. Make it count with uplifting, encouraging words like:
- “I’m proud of you—more than words can say.”
- “You’ve got everything it takes to succeed.”
- “We’ll be here cheering you on every step of the way.”
Keep it short, powerful, and positive so those words can echo in their mind when training gets tough.
Capture the Moment
Take a quick photo together before they leave. Not only will it be a treasured keepsake for you, but it will also be something you can send back to them in a letter during training. Every time they see it, they’ll remember the love and pride behind their journey.
Plan Your First Letter Now
You won’t be able to call or text after they leave, so start thinking about what you’ll write in your first letter. A heartfelt message of encouragement arriving in their first week of Basic can make a world of difference.
Remember—This Is a “See You Later,” Not Goodbye
Basic Training is temporary, but the pride you’ll feel at graduation lasts a lifetime. Picture that day—their crisp uniform, their confident smile, the moment you see them as a United States Army Soldier. That’s the day you’re working toward together.
The Goodbye That Fuels the Journey
When you send your Soldier off with positivity, you’re giving them the gift of confidence. Your support will be the invisible strength they carry through every run, every drill, and every challenge. This isn’t just goodbye—it’s the first step in an incredible journey you’ll share.
I’ll be back next week with more tips and guidance. Until then, Hooah!
SGM Kris Broadus, U.S. Army (Retired)